When I was planning my own wedding, I was told SO many things! Some were helpful, some where unsolicited, and some were crazy! Here's the top three myths I heard, and hear all the time from my clients, and what the truth is!
“This is the most important day of your life”
-I tend to disagree with this. Your wedding day is a beautiful day, full of celebration and excitement. It is the start of your forever. It is not the peak of the mountain where your life goes downhill after! It is the start of a new chapter. So soak in the day, love every second of it. But just remember, the days keep getting better! Starting your marriage out with this mindset will enrich your marriage!
“Every detail has to be perfect”
- Technology is amazing, isn’t it? Between Pinterest and Instagram we have all the wedding inspiration we could ever dream of. It’s so easy to get caught up in all of that. The only thing that really matters about this day is you and the love of your life being married, and celebrating with those who you love. Everything else is just an added bonus! So don’t stress out over things you don’t particularly care for. Your wedding day can be perfect, but by your standards! NOT Pinterest’s. As long as you know what’s important to you it will be a beautiful day.
“Wedding planning is stressful”
-It doesn’t have to be! It gets stressful when you’re doing things that aren’t what you want. You don’t have to stick to tradition, make your wedding your own! There are tons of resources to help you with planning your wedding. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, and to delegate. We are all here to love and support you! You are not in this alone.